The Next Steps Call
A grounded video call about where you are, where you want to be, and whether coaching is the right fit. No performing, no having it all figured out first. Just a real conversation.
Book my free callFaith-based life coach · Author · Speaker
Something changed. A divorce, a layoff, an empty house, a move, a season that ended without asking your permission. I help women heal what happened, rebuild on who God says they are, and rediscover the woman He created them to be.

That question is not a sign that you're lost. It's an invitation.
You kept the house going, kept the kids fed, kept showing up at work, kept smiling at church. You watched the videos, read the books, made the vision board, and started over on a Monday more times than you can count. And somewhere in all that pushing, you lost track of the woman doing the pushing.
If you feel stuck because you're not sure who you are anymore, or what authority God already gave you, you're in the right place. Together we'll quiet the things that keep you stuck:
How we walk it out
Give yourself permission to pause, and lay down what was never yours to carry. Rest is not a reward you earn after you've fixed everything. Rest is where the fixing starts.
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."Matthew 11:28 (NIV)
Remember whose you are, take your authority back, and quiet the fear that keeps you stuck. Your identity is not a role. It's whose you are, and that has never changed.
"For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works."Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)
Meet her again, and walk like you know who you are. Your gifts are grace. Your desires matter to God. You were never meant to shrink so everyone else could be comfortable.
"Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tent curtains wide, do not hold back."Isaiah 54:2 (NIV)
Every session, workbook, and talk is built on my signature coaching framework, the REST Method, and rooted in the Word of God.
Explore coachingWays to work with me
A grounded video call about where you are, where you want to be, and whether coaching is the right fit. No performing, no having it all figured out first. Just a real conversation.
Book my free callA one-hour private session centered on who God says you are. We talk through your identity, your authority, and your purpose, then map out what walking it out looks like for you.
$127 · 1 hour
Book a sessionKeynotes, workshops, and lunch-and-learns for churches, women's conferences, schools, and workplaces. Real stories, rooted in Scripture, with steps people can take home.
See speaking topicsThe workbook
Name the lies that have kept you stuck, rewrite them with God's truth, and walk out of day seven with a confidence so rooted in Christ that you never shrink again.
Speaker
Kemi speaks sister to sister, from experience, not a pedestal. Audiences leave having laughed, cried, and written down their next step.

"So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded."Hebrews 10:35 (NIV)
Your next step
Your free Next Steps Call is the easiest way to feel out the fit and see what's possible. Pick a time that works for you and show up as you are.
Book my free Next Steps CallMeet your coach
Faith-based life coach, author, speaker, and founder of Simply Be Free Consulting. Walking alongside women since 2011.

Raising five children in Katy, Texas.
I don't teach this from a pedestal. I teach it from experience.
I know what it's like to have life change overnight and to look in the mirror and not recognize the woman looking back. I know what it's like to start over with no map and a whole lot of people watching.
And I know that God doesn't waste anything. He met me in that place, reminded me whose I am, and gave me the courage to build again. Now it's my joy to help you do the same.
I'm the author of Dear Sis! and Pack Light, the host of the Girl Listen Podcast, the founder of the Hey Girl Hey Conference, and the former host of the Love, Hate and Relationships Radio Show. My background is in nonprofit leadership, human resources, and training and facilitation, so I know how to help people move from "I know" to "I did."
But my favorite title is Mama. I'm raising my five children right here in Katy, Texas, and every one of them is a reminder that rebuilding is possible.
If you're asking "Who am I now?", I want you to know that question is an invitation. Let's answer it together.
Fifteen years of helping women heal, rebuild, and rediscover who God created them to be.
Honest, Scripture-rooted encouragement for women carrying more than they were meant to.
Her signature coaching framework, built on three pillars: Heal, Rebuild, Rediscover.
Founder, organizer, and speaker. She builds rooms where women feel seen.
Host. Former host of the Love, Hate and Relationships Radio Show.
Nonprofit leadership, human resources, and training and facilitation.
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Faith-filled, unfiltered, and unapologetically us. Sister-girl talk about life, love, motherhood, faith, and everything in between, with your girl Kemi and special guests.
"Two are better than one... If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Programs & services
Clear plans, real accountability, and a coach in your corner who gets it. Every path is grounded in who God says you are.
How it works
Choose a time for your Next Steps Call. We'll talk about where you are and where you want to be.
Together we'll pick the offer that fits this season: a single session, ongoing 1:1 coaching, or a program.
We meet by video, centered on the Word, and turn what you know into what you do, one brave step at a time.
Complimentary
If you're not sure where to begin, start here. It's a no-pressure video call to see what's possible and whether coaching is the right fit for you.
$127 · one hour
A private session for clarity, a fresh start, or a steady hand as you rebuild. We'll talk through your identity, your authority, and the purpose God placed in you, then map out what walking it out actually looks like.
Masterclass + coaching
For the woman ready to build something of her own. Kemi teaches how to start a business with zero dollars and no upfront capital, drawn from her own experience bootstrapping businesses across different lanes.
Free to attend
Throughout the year Kemi hosts free live masterclasses on identity, authority, and building a life you love. Follow on Instagram for the next date and your link to save a seat.
The REST Method
Everything inside Simply Be Free Consulting pulls from these three seasons, and every one of them is rooted in the Word of God.
Pause without guilt. Release the labels, the shame, and the weight that was never yours.
Build your identity on whose you are, take back your God-given authority, and fire the perfectionist.
Find your gifts again, write the vision, and walk like you know who you are.
Questions
Not at all. Come as you are. The free Next Steps Call exists so you don't have to know exactly what you need before we talk.
All coaching sessions happen on a video call, so you can join from wherever you are. You'll pick your time when you book through my scheduling page.
No. Coaching is faith-based encouragement and personal growth focused on your next steps. It is not a substitute for professional counseling, medical, legal, or financial advice. If you're in crisis, please reach out to a licensed professional or a trusted leader in your life.
My coaching is rooted in Scripture and centered on who God says you are. If that's what you're looking for, you're welcome here wherever you are in your walk.
If we're a fit, I'll recommend the path that makes the most sense for this season. If we're not, you'll still leave with a clear next step.
Book Kemi Miller
Faith-based life coach, author, podcast host, and founder of the Hey Girl Hey Conference. Kemi brings warmth, humor, and hard-won truth to every stage, and she leaves your audience with something they can actually do on Monday.

Signature talks
When marriages end, jobs get cut, or kids move out, a life built on roles loses its footing. Kemi walks women through healing, rebuilding identity on who God says they are, and rediscovering the woman He created.
Audience takeawayA clear way to separate who they are from what they do, plus a "Name the Lie, Rewrite the Truth" tool they can use the same day.
Fear, other people's opinions, and old voices have been making too many decisions. Through Scripture and women of the Bible like the daughters of Zelophehad, Kemi shows that God already gave us the authority, the permission, and the power to choose.
Audience takeawayOne decision they've been putting off, chosen before they leave the room.
How to start a business with zero dollars. Kemi breaks down choosing a business structure, finding your audience, and using community resources to launch with nothing out of pocket.
Audience takeawayA starter plan for a business they can launch without waiting on money.
A domestic violence awareness training for churches, schools, colleges, and workplaces. Kemi teaches leaders and staff how to recognize the signs of abuse and ask the right questions, so the person hurting doesn't have to find the words first.
Audience takeawayPractical signs to watch for, better questions to ask, and how to help someone take a next step toward safety.
Why event planners book Kemi
As founder and organizer of the Hey Girl Hey Conference, Kemi knows what an event host needs: on time, on message, and easy to work with.
Years behind a radio microphone and now on the Girl Listen Podcast mean she knows how to keep people laughing, leaning in, and listening.
A background in training and facilitation means every talk ends with steps people use, not just a feeling that fades by the parking lot.
Formats
Speaker inquiry
Share a few details and your email app will open with a message ready to send. I'll get back to you about availability, fees, and how we can tailor the talk to your audience.
lifewithkemi@gmail.comWorkbooks, devotionals & Bible studies
Scripture-rooted tools you can start tonight. Go at your own pace, be honest on the pages, and keep going when it gets uncomfortable. That's usually right where the breakthrough is.
Featured workbook
A 7-day Scripture workbook to heal, rebuild, and rediscover the woman God created you to be. Rest, release, remember whose you are, take your authority back, fire the perfectionist, meet yourself again, and walk like you know who you are.
The library
Put down what you were never meant to carry into your next season.
A guided workbook paired with a live session with Kemi.
Fifteen days of Scripture to settle your identity in Christ.
Learn to recognize and trust the voice of God in your everyday life.
A simple, guided study for placing your life in God's hands.
A simple, guided study on trusting God when you can't see the way.
A reminder of who you are to Him: called by name, loved, and His.
Honest encouragement from one sister to another.
Turn what you started on the page into a plan, with a coach in your corner.
The shop
Apparel and gifts from Simply Be Free Apparel. Flat $7 shipping, and free shipping on orders over $100.
Book Coach Kemi
Whether you need clarity, a fresh start, or a steady hand as you rebuild, booking time with me is simple. Pick the offer that fits where you are right now, choose a time that works for you, and show up as you are.
We'll meet on a video call that is grounded and centered on who God says you are. I can't wait to talk with you.
The easiest way to feel out the fit and see what's possible. No pressure, just a real conversation.
Other ways to book
A one-hour private coaching session centered on your identity, your authority, and your purpose.
$127 · 1 hour
Book Begin AgainKeynotes, workshops, lunch-and-learns, retreats, and podcast interviews.
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Browse resources"He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion."Philippians 1:6 (NIV)